{"id":8202,"date":"2026-08-19T09:13:46","date_gmt":"2026-08-19T09:13:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailynewtbn.top\/?p=8202"},"modified":"2026-08-19T09:13:47","modified_gmt":"2026-08-19T09:13:47","slug":"i-spent-months-crocheting-a-dress-for-my-8-year-old-daughter-to-wear-as-a-flower-girl-at-our-wedding-but-my-future-mother-in-law-ruined-it-her-son-wouldnt-allow-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailynewtbn.top\/?p=8202","title":{"rendered":"I spent months crocheting a dress for my 8-year-old daughter to wear as a flower girl at our wedding, but my future mother-in-law ruined it \u2013 her son wouldn&#8217;t allow it."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"655\" src=\"https:\/\/dailynewtbn.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-335-1024x655.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8221\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dailynewtbn.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-335-1024x655.png 1024w, https:\/\/dailynewtbn.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-335-300x192.png 300w, https:\/\/dailynewtbn.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-335-768x491.png 768w, https:\/\/dailynewtbn.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-335.png 1394w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I spent months crocheting my 8-year-old daughter&#8217;s flower girl dress, only to find it had been ruined the very morning of my wedding. My future mother-in-law admitted she&#8217;d destroyed it because Lily &#8220;wasn&#8217;t blood-related.&#8221; I thought she&#8217;d ruined our day\u2026 until my fianc\u00e9 took the microphone in front of 200 guests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The 200 guests had already taken their seats at our wedding banquet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then my husband took the microphone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He turned to his mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida was about to find out that Glen wasn&#8217;t going to let her get away with ruining my daughter&#8217;s flower girl dress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My husband picked up the microphone.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Mom, could you look down at your feet, please? There&#8217;s something waiting for you next to your chair.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then he looked down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;How could you do this to me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her scream echoed throughout the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Something is waiting for you next to your chair.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Standing there in my wedding dress, I couldn&#8217;t stop thinking about how everything had changed in just a few days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The room was only illuminated by the glow of the ceiling light.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My fingers were making the last stitches of a fine white crochet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I had been knitting this flower girl dress for my eight-year-old daughter for months.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Everything had taken a radical turn in just a few days.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She had made some tiny shell stitches in the crochet thread.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I added little flowers to the skirt and a scalloped edge along the sleeves and hem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was finally finished.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Each stitch carried with it the wish that this wedding would give Lily the family she deserved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Mom, are you ready yet? Are you really ready?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lily jumped onto the sofa next to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Each stitch carried a wish<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Almost, darling,&#8221; I said, lifting him up. &#8220;I just need one more row.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;m going to scatter the petals very slowly,&#8221; she whispered, twirling an imaginary bouquet. &#8220;Everyone will look at you first, and then at me.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I laughed and kissed him on the top of his head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;That&#8217;s exactly how it should be.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Just one more lap.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My first husband left as soon as he found out I was pregnant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For eight years it had just been Lily and me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And she had stopped believing that good men existed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then Glen appeared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That afternoon he entered the living room and picked Lily up in his arms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I had already stopped believing that good men existed.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She squealed with joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Dad, look! My dress is ready!&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My heart softened every time she called him that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He treated her as if she were his own flesh and blood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But not everyone shared our joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My heart softened every time she called him that.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">An hour later the doorbell rang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida was on the porch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;ve come to talk to my son,&#8221; she announced, entering the house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;He&#8217;s putting Lily to bed right now,&#8221; I told him. &#8220;You can wait if you want.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida sat stiffly on the edge of the sofa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She stared at the dress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;ve come to talk to my son,&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I had left it hanging on the armchair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida pressed her lips together into a thin line.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Is it for the girl?&#8221; he asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Yes. He&#8217;s eager to put it on.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Beautiful,&#8221; he murmured. &#8220;Fragile things always are.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Beautiful,&#8221; he murmured. &#8220;Fragile things always are.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When Glen entered the room, she stood up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Glen, this is your last chance. Cancel this wedding.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He stopped at the threshold.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Why tie yourself down to a woman with a complicated past?&#8221; Ida continued. &#8220;You could have any girl you wanted.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Glen tensed up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Glen, this is your last chance. Cancel this wedding.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Mom, we&#8217;ve already talked about this&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;m serious,&#8221; she interrupted sharply. &#8220;If you marry her, I&#8217;ll never accept that child. She&#8217;s not of our blood.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I froze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The old fear of abandonment ran down my spine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I will never accept that girl.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I forced myself to speak, with a voice firmer than I felt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Lily is not a burden, Ida. She&#8217;s the best thing that&#8217;s ever happened to me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida let out a snort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then he turned to Glen and softened his tone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Just think about what I&#8217;ve told you, darling. It&#8217;s all a mother wants.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I forced myself to speak,<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Glen accompanied her to the door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I carefully hung the finished dress in the closet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;She&#8217;ll come to her senses,&#8221; Glen told me. &#8220;As soon as she sees how happy we are.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I hope so,&#8221; I whispered. &#8220;For Lily&#8217;s sake.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neither of us could have imagined how determined Ida was to prevent our wedding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I carefully hung the finished dress in the closet.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida returned every day that week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Each time, Glen refused to cancel the wedding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On our wedding day, Lily rushed upstairs, eager to be my flower girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Mom, I&#8217;m going to put on my dress now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Go ahead, darling. I&#8217;ll come upstairs right now to button your shirt.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida returned every day that week.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then the scream was heard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It pierced the house, sharp and heartbreaking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I dropped everything I was doing and ran.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I found Lily standing in front of the open wardrobe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her little hands were pressed against her mouth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Mom,&#8221; she sobbed, &#8220;someone has ripped my dress.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then the scream was heard.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My whole body froze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The dress she had crocheted for months was in tatters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It looked like a messy cobweb hanging on the hanger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There were dark stains that soaked into the white.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This was not an accident.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Someone had done it on purpose, out of hatred.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;No,&#8221; I whispered. &#8220;No, no, no.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This was not an accident.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Why would anyone ruin it?&#8221; Lily asked, her voice breaking. &#8220;I was going to scatter the petals. You told me I could.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I hugged her tightly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her small shoulders trembled against me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I know, darling. I know you were going to do it. It&#8217;s not your fault. None of this is your fault.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But even as I hugged her, one name burned in my mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Why would anyone ruin it?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I remembered Ida staring at the dress and saying, &#8220;Is that for the girl?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I remembered that he had excused himself to go to the bathroom before leaving the night before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was only one person I had to call.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I took a picture of the ruined dress with my mobile phone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Glen had to see with his own eyes what his mother had done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then I called Ida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was only one person I had to call.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He answered on the second ring.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Well, good morning. Is something wrong?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You know perfectly well what&#8217;s going on, Ida. Lily&#8217;s dress. The one that took me months to make. It&#8217;s ruined.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She let out a small sound of satisfaction, almost a giggle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You know perfectly well what&#8217;s going on, Ida.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Ah&#8230; that.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You did this. You came into my house and ruined an eight-year-old girl&#8217;s dress.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;What did you expect?&#8221; Ida snapped, all her sweetness gone. &#8220;I told Glen this would happen. I warned him.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;She&#8217;s just a little girl! She hasn&#8217;t done anything to you. Nothing.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You did this.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;She&#8217;s not family,&#8221; Ida hissed. &#8220;And that&#8217;s the end of it. This wedding isn&#8217;t happening. I&#8217;ll see to it.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I looked down at Lily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She stared at me with teary, confused eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Something inside me suddenly clicked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Listen to me carefully,&#8221; I said quietly. &#8220;You can hate me all you want. But you crossed a line the moment you made my daughter cry.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;She&#8217;s not one of our family,&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Your daughter,&#8221; Ida spat out, almost angrily. &#8220;That&#8217;s the problem, isn&#8217;t it? That she&#8217;s yours.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Her name is Lily. And she&#8217;s the kindest, the sweetest&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;It doesn&#8217;t matter. She&#8217;s not part of my family. Glen will realize that sooner or later. When she does, she&#8217;ll thank me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Do you really think that ruining a dress is going to stop the wedding?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;That&#8217;s the problem, isn&#8217;t it?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I believe,&#8221; Ida said coldly, &#8220;that today you will walk into that church and find no boyfriend waiting for you.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Those words hit me like a stone in the chest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;My son knows who he owes his loyalty to,&#8221; he concluded with a smile in his voice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Glen wouldn&#8217;t do that to me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But even as I was saying that, a doubt crept into my mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Today you will enter that church and you will not find any boyfriend waiting for you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida laughed again, with a soft, confident laugh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;In the end, blood always wins, my dear. And you&#8217;ve already proven that you&#8217;re not the kind of woman a man stays for.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He hung up before I could answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lily gently tugged on my sleeve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You&#8217;re not the type of woman a man stays for.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Mom, is Grandma Ida mad at me? Have I done something wrong?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I refused to let the fear show on my face when I looked at her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;No, darling. It&#8217;s just that&#8230; Listen, this has nothing to do with you. You&#8217;re more than enough.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She sniffed and nodded, trusting me as she always did.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I searched for Glen&#8217;s name in my contacts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Have I done something wrong?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida had just told me exactly which side she thought Glen would be on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was only one way to find out if he was right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I called him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I told him the story between sobs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I sent him the photo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When I finished, he remained silent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was only one way to find out if she was right.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In that silence, I prepared myself for the words I feared most.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cJust fix it,\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;I imagined he would say.&nbsp;<em>&#8220;She&#8217;s my mother. Let&#8217;s not make a fuss.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When she answered, her voice sounded monotonous and cold.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Find Lily another dress. A pretty one. One she wants.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;And Ida?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I braced myself for the words I feared most.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I will take care of my mother.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The way he said it gave me goosebumps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This was not the conciliatory Glen I knew, the one who always changed the subject when his mother started with her cruel comments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Glen, please don&#8217;t do anything you&#8217;ll regret. She&#8217;s your mother.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">His response was not long in coming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I will take care of my mother.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Lily is my daughter. Now go take care of her. I&#8217;ll take care of everything else.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She hung up before I could argue with him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I no longer wondered if Glen would face Ida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead, I wondered what he planned to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I refocused on Lily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wondered what he was going to do.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Honey, we&#8217;re going to buy you a new dress right now,&#8221; I said, while drying her cheeks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;But you did it for me,&#8221; she whispered. &#8220;You did it just for me.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I know, darling. And no one will ever be able to take away the love I put into it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She looked at me with red, swollen eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Does this mean the wedding is still on? Will Glen still be my dad?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;But you did it to me,&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I forced a smile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;The wedding will definitely take place.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A few minutes later, Lily and I were rushing through the city in search of another flower girl dress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lily chose a light ivory dress with embroidered flowers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Are you sure Glen still loves us?&#8221; she asked me in the fitting room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;The wedding will definitely take place.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She didn&#8217;t call him &#8220;dad&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That said it all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I think Glen loves us more than anything in the world.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And I truly believed it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But I had no idea how far he would be willing to go to prove it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That said it all.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By the time we arrived at the venue, my nerves were more wrecked than that dress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida had promised me that, upon arriving, I wouldn&#8217;t find my boyfriend waiting for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead, Glen greeted us at the entrance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He knelt down and cupped Lily&#8217;s face in his hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You look beautiful,&#8221; he told her. &#8220;The most beautiful flower girl in the whole world.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida had promised me that, when I arrived, there wouldn&#8217;t be a boyfriend waiting for me.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Grandma Ida has ruined my dress,&#8221; Lily said quietly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I know, honey. But you&#8217;re going to have the best day ever anyway. I promise.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He stood up and kissed me on the forehead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Glen, what have you done to your mother?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Nothing yet,&#8221; he replied. &#8220;She&#8217;s here. She&#8217;s sitting in the front row.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Grandma Ida has ruined my dress,&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After what he had done, that was the last answer he expected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Because?&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I want you to be here tonight. There&#8217;s something you need to understand.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I stared at him, with a knot in my chest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Glen, you&#8217;re scaring me. 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And she&#8217;s about to learn the difference in front of two hundred people.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We walked towards the reception hall.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Silence fell over the room when Glen tapped the microphone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Mom,&#8221; he said, &#8220;could you look down at your feet, please? There&#8217;s something waiting for you by your chair.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ida smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He bent down and held up an envelope for everyone to see.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As soon as she opened the envelope, her smile vanished.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Something is waiting for you next to your chair.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">First, the photo slid into her lap: the dress you had ruined, with every ripped stitch and every dark stain staring back at her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then a card appeared for the mothers and children dance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In it, Glen had written a single word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">CANCELED.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Glen had written a single word.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She screamed so loudly that she thought people could hear her from space.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;How could you do this to me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But Glen wasn&#8217;t finished yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He glanced around the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;My mother tore apart the flower girl dress my wife had crocheted for Lily to wear today. She ripped it to pieces because she decided Lily wasn&#8217;t family. 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